Still Reveling...A Week Ago Today

I'm still glowing from the surprise I came home to last Friday.

Fridays are [supposed to be] Jesse's day off [in case you didn't pick it up, it rarely actually happens :-)]

I usually leave him with a light Honey-Do list of things to keep him busy---I spend all of my "days off" at church with him, so it's only fair to give him the things I don't have time to do because of it, right?  :-)

After "clean bathroom" and "fold laundry on bed," I wrote "Dinner on you?"  He loves being able to pick out a frozen pizza or try a new Pastaroni.  And I knew I'd be hungry after work and hadn't had a chance to put a thought into dinner.

He nearly knocked my socks off, though, when I entered the house to the smell of fresh cilantro, garlic, onions, fresh-squeezed lime, and fish.

My Jesse?!?!?

Oh yes, my Jesse.

My Jesse took the time to look up a Grilled Tilapia Tacos recipe that he found through his friend/fellow youth pastor Phil's website.  He went to the store and picked up all of the ingredients, marinated the tilapia, and had the grill going when I got home.  *Melt*

This is the sight I came home to:

Wow!

Such yummy amazingness.

Girls, get your guy to bring out the grill and wow you with this recipe.  Phil's recipe for salsa is really great, too, so give it a try!

1,095 Days of Being His Wife

Three years ago today, Jesse and I were dancing the sunset away.  Blissful, exhilarated to be husband and wife, and excited for the days ahead.



What a wonderful three years it has been!

Jesse is currently leading his jr. high youth group, and I opted out of making the hour long trafficky drive to go to Pastor's Bible study tonight to stay home and make chocolate raspberry cheesecake instead (recipe to come!) and wait for my handsome husband of three years to come home for a night of wedding video-watching, cheesecake eating, candles, and Martinelli's (we'll save our wedding champagne for a year that I'm not pregnant!)

After work today, I stopped by the grocery store to pick up the things I would need for cheesecake.  When I put everything on the conveyor belt, the guy at the register asked how my day was going.

"Pretty well," I smiled, "It's my 3rd wedding anniversary, and I'm heading home to make cheesecake to surprise my husband when he gets home from work."

"Wow, three years," He smiled back and leaned in, "So, has it been everything you imagined?"

"Even more wonderful!" I said as he handed me the receipt.

I thought about it on my way home.

Was it everything you imagined?

When Jesse and I were freshly engaged, we looked forward to things in married life like serving God side-by-side in a congregation, dinners together in our own home, and not having to say "goodnight" at the doorstep anymore.

I certainly didn't imagine the way that my heart would skip a beat when I heard his engine in the driveway, or the way that smelling his fresh cologne in the mornings would send a flutter through me.  I didn't anticipate a husband who would take joy in preparing breakfasts for me while I got ready for work, or that he would get so excited about my homemade meals.  I never imagined the pain of losing a family member---and the comfort that Jesse would be to me during that time.  I didn't think about days when I would be so tired that I would just need a good cry, or how lovingly he would carry me to bed after I fell asleep in his arms on the couch.  I didn't imagine getting upset when he was late coming home at night from church--or the way that I would melt into his hugs the moment he opened the door.  I didn't imagine that a guy could feel like a radiator during the summer---but that even in the sticky heat, I wouldn't be able to sleep anymore without being wrapped in his arms.  I looked forward to becoming parents with him, but I never imagined how lovingly he would care for me during my pregnancy---the trips to the hospital when I was so sick that I needed to be rehydrated with IVs, the hours he spent holding my hair back for me as I got sick again and again, his loving coaxing to get me to try to eat something.  I never imagined the thrill of feeling our baby kick under Jesse's hand, or the way the belly-kisses Jesse gives our Little One before he leaves would melt my heart.

I imagined wonderful things when I anticipated marrying Jesse.

But in the last three years, if I've learned anything, I've learned that love only deepens, new ways of loving arise, and the days ahead only look more exciting.

 

 

 

Too Old ;-)

Last night after dinner, Jesse and I were talking about his upcoming youth group event: seeing Pirates of the Caribbean 4 at the El Capitan and then hiking up to the Hollywood sign.  I'm bummed that I can't go, since they're doing it next Friday as an official kick-off to summer, and I have to work.

We've seen every Pirates together (I think?  Maybe not the first?  Lol, what was my life like before I met him in 2005?!) at a theater, and the thought of him going without me made us both sad.  We tried to think of a night that we could go together before next Friday, but realized that there is not a SINGLE night between now and then that we don't have plans!

So we did something crazy.  We grabbed snacks, camping chairs, and a pile of blankets, and drove out to the local drive-in movie theater for a double showing of X-Men and Pirates.

Oh my.  I'm too old for such spontaneity these days!  But, we realized last night that our days of being able to be spontaneous will be pretty limited after our little one arrives...so we went for it.

We had a wonderful time cuddling under blankets while watching the movies under a waning moon with the back of our station wagon open so that we could hear the audio from the movie.  (I didn't quite make it all the way through both movies, but I woke up from time to time with a squeeze from my Handsome Man's hand.)

It was after 2am by the time that we got home.  I forgot to factor in that a double feature starting at 8:30 would go pretty late if both movies were over 2 hours long!  Oops!  We'll probably be pretty tired today, but I'm thankful that we got that opportunity to do something spontaneous, spend time together, and not miss out on a tradition that we enjoy.

A Precious Moment

It's been a busy few days!  I've been at church until after 10 the last two nights...so happy that there are no plans for this evening and that Jesse and I can rest up before our busy weekend!  Tomorrow, we are going to the high school graduation of several of our HS youth group seniors, and then we are driving straight up to my parents' house to see my youngest sister direct and perform in the play, The Dining Room.  Last night was their opening night, and from what I've heard, I can't wait to see it even MORE!  Laura graduates from high school on Sunday.  I'm so proud of her!  It's going to be a busy, busy weekend.  But wonderful, too, and I'm excited!

This morning, I posted on our baby blog, so check out my most recent Letters to Our Little One post right here.  (And check out the one Jesse wrote about feeling the baby kick, too.  It makes me cry :-) )

Blessings on your FRIDAY!!!

♥Bethany

Feeling Good

I'm cheating.  Currently, it's 6:24pm on June 1st, but I'm scheduling this post to go up tomorrow morning.  I figure, I have 6 minutes til Pastor's Bible study on 1st Peter begins, and I should post now while I have time.  How pathetic would it be not to have a post up in the morning after saying how excited I was about my new schedule and ending with "See you tomorrow!"  ???

Today was a blur.  I have a new coworker, a new schedule, and new students.  Things may not go smoothly until next week, but that's ok.  God's hand was in all of the changes, and as much as I'll miss my sweet coworker, Anne, I'm very thankful that my new coworker, Caroline, is very nice, too.  Things are good.

I also had my 3 Month Evaluation at work today.  Sounds official, doesn't it?  It was, and it went very well.  I was thankful for all of the positive remarks my employer had, and being told that I'm appreciated there was pretty great, too.  As much as I feel like a fish out of water there sometimes (I have a lot to tell you!) I'm thankful that they don't feel that way :-)

As soon as I clocked out this afternoon, I drove to church and helped Jesse prepare dinner for 30 kids.  He and I won't get a homecooked meal together til Monday, but at least our jr. high youth group kids were happy today.

I'm hiding out in his office right now...good thing Bible Study never actually begins on time!  I'm enjoying some much-needed peace and quiet.  After 8 hours of Pre-Kinders, and an hour of 6-8th graders, I need it.  Now I'm off to adult Bible study with Pastor, and then two hours of College and Career Bible Study.  Wednesdays are full!

But I had to tell you how happy it made me to come in and check my blog and see that five of you had commented on my last post!  So, Kelly, Bonnie, Megan, Stacey, and Paris, thanks for brightening my day!  I love it when this blog is interactive, and I'm so thankful for each of you and the friendships we have made--whether in real life, or only through the internet!  You made me smile, and I hope God blesses you each with a lovely day today!

♥Bethany

New Schedule

My work hours change today...I'm excited!

Now, instead of working 8:30-5:30, I'll be working 7:30-4.   Getting up and leaving the house by 7am may become a challenge, but I think the perks of getting home way earlier in the afternoon will outweigh it.  Plus, since the miserable days of morning sickness began, I've woken up every morning at 6 anyway.  Sooo happy that's over!

Anyway, I have high hopes for my new schedule.  Since I'll be home every day by 4:30, I'm hoping to:

♥put more time and effort into homemade meals (instead of getting home at 6 and saying "I'm starving!  What will be ready in 5 minutes?)

♥get this blog back on the road again.  It's embarrassing how neglected it's been lately, and I think that since I'll be getting home before Jesse now, I'll be able to spend some time on it in the afternoons instead of feeling like I'm neglecting my husband when he's home.

Two small goals to start with, but with as busy as things are these days, that's about all that I can handle.

See you tomorrow!

Fellowshipping with Colter

Our friend Colter returned to the States last week to see family and go around to different churches speaking about God's work in Kazakhstan.  It was so good to see him!

Jesse arranged for Colter to come speak to our church, and we were looking forward to it for months.

Colter is an old friend from our college days.



(Jesse and I are on the far left in this 2008 pic, and Colter is the one Jesse is supporting on his shoulder)

We hadn't seen him since graduation, and haven't had much communication with him since he's been teaching English in Kazakhstan and sharing God's Word with the people there.

It was great to have him come to our church and speak to the members there.  So many exciting stories to hear and new things to pray for.

 

After Colter's presentation, Jesse and I took him to our favorite 50s diner on Route 66.  We sat there til nearly 11pm catching up on life and enjoying old friendship.

Colter spent the night with us that night, and the next morning, Jesse took him to another school in the area to speak with the students there.  I don't know when we'll see him again, but I'm thankful for the time we got to spend with him last week.

God be with you til we meet again, Colter!